Thursday, February 25, 2010

Presentation Recap and Author Spotlight, L.C. Lewis

In case you were wondering, last night’s presentation went really well. Splendid. Fantastic. Okay, enough adverbs for this blog. Anyway, we didn’t have a huge turnout—blah to the snow and icky weather!—but it was still a great experience. Cindy and I talked about our journey from proposal to publication and then promoting. It was a learning experience for us as much as the aspiring authors for whom we presented, and I hope we get the opportunity to present again soon. Believe me, I need the practice. (Thanks to Tobyn DeGraw for inviting us to speak in the first place.)

While I was speaking—or maybe after, I don’t know—I realized something about myself. Even though I was a little bit nervous, I’m actually fairly comfortable talking and/or presenting, about writing, even in front of a group. Granted, it was a small group, but still. Ask me to speak in church, and…ahhhhah, everything in me cringes. But have me talk about writing, being published, anything to do with the industry, and I’m okay. Who knew?

You’d think I spend a lot of time hanging out with authors or something. Or maybe it’s because my amazing coauthor Cindy and her husband Russ were there to cheer me on, as always. *shrugs* I dunno. I do know it helped that we presented together, simply because my brain has a tendency to draw a blank when a lot of eager faces are staring at me. Yeah. I’ve so got to get over that. Sheesh. Working on it. (Hence the need for more practice—but not at church, please!)

Anyway, it went well. And now that my week is halfway over, I’m feeling somewhat relieved because I’ve already finished half the stuff I mentioned in my last post, and even a few extra things besides. Now all I have to do is write a chapter to take with me to critique tonight, find all my tax deductions from 2009 to take to a meeting with our accountant, and pack my bags for my trip to Phoenix on Friday. Piece of pie. And can I just say I’m way excited for Phoenix? Yeah. It’s like a mini vacation, plus authors. So. Stoked. Squeee!

I digress. And now, on to this week’s author spotlight, which I totally didn’t forget, and which I’ve needed to do all week but haven’t had time until right now. L.C. Lewis, come on down!

L.C. Lewis (aka Laurie) is the author of the Free Men and Dreamers series, which consists of three books, Dark Sky at Dawn, Twilights Last Gleaming, and Dawns Early Light. She’s also the author of Unspoken, as well as a new romance that is soon to be released. (No solid title yet, I’m told.)

Laurie is a woman after my own heart, as she loves music, acting, and writing all equally. She even admits on her website biography that she wanted to be a rockstar in her youth. Now, I’m sorry, I thought I was the only author who dared admit something so bold—and on my website. Since Laurie has proven me wrong in that aspect, I’ve decided we’re kindred spirits. Lots of things in common. You can read her full bio here.

You can find Laurie’s books wherever LDS books are sold, as well as the regular online sources. Or, if you’d like to read a few sample chapters, check out her website or blog.

As I was researching for this spotlight, I came across this interview, which I lifted from her website. I’d love to send her my regular interview questions, but—well, you’ve all seen my schedule this week. It’s a tad insane, which is why I’m going to cheat here and use someone else’s interview. Don’t worry, though. I wouldn’t do that unless I really got a lot out of reading it myself.

What made you decide to write a historical novel set in a war period?

Two of my sons were at EFY in Willamsburg, Virginia about ten years ago and I became so intrigued and awed by the richness of our colonial heritage that I began reading about the life and lifestyles of early America. Originally, I set the manuscript forward from where it now is because the scope of events in the early nineteenth century was overwhelming to me, but when I was asked to expand the manuscript, I couldn't resist the temptation to illustrate the history in my own backyard and to further research these amazing Americans who had captivated my interest for over a decade and who set the stage for the Restoration.

Which historical figure stands out to you?

Oh, without question it would be George Washington. He always looked so stern to me in those classroom prints growing up, but after reading about his personal life and his struggle to serve his country despite his intense desire for a private life, I have come to really respect and love him, and more importantly, I am so grateful to him. He was so revered that he could easily have set himself up as a king figure, but he was such a spiritual man that he understood that there was a divine plan for this nation.

How has your research changed you?

In so many ways. First, I relate everything to history now and my family gets pretty tired of that, I can tell you! But I hope I've learned one important lesson that crosses all times periods and situations, and it is that we must judge or evaluate a person's life based on the times in which they lived. If we try to measure them using hindsight and the values of another period, we may fail to see that they were a giant in their own time.

Which character in Dark Sky at Dawn most reflects you?

I don't know how it is for all authors, but when I write, each character reflects a little piece of me, or a sliver of my life experience at one time or another, albeit even as an observer. In this way I feel personally engaged in the conversations and thoughts, and hopefully, I can create a more vivid character and story for the reader.

Are you saying that Hannah's spiritual struggles are a reflection of your personal experiences?

Yes, in some ways. Our family went through a very trying period when we were living on prayer and faith. There were lots of days when life seemed so hard and heavy. We carried on with our lives, but often, as soon as the house emptied, I fell beside my bed and pled out loud with the Lord. Many tender, spiritual experiences came from those moments, but had I listened more carefully, I would have felt His arms of love around me even before I began my pleading. I wanted Hannah to reflect that struggle to learn to listen, to trust and to surrender ourselves to His will.


And that’s going to do it for this week’s author spotlight. Stay tuned for exciting news about my experience at the ANWA conference, and have a great weekend.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Book Review: "Love Your Body" by Brooke Parker, R.D. (And a Contest!)

By Nichole Giles

**Keep reading for contest information!
 The blurb:

Are you tired of dieting and feeling unsatisfied with your appearance? In this book, registered dietitian Brooke Parker shares secrets for developing a positive body image and creating your own customized eating plan. You’ll also learn how to replace negative thoughts about yourself with positive, motivating thoughts.


With the tools you master in Love Your Body, the scale, the media, and your “skinny jeans” will no longer have the power to determine your mood, or your life!

My daughters play sports. Both of them are the athletic type—which, for them, translates to fit and healthy. But that doesn’t mean I don’t constantly worry about what they eat and how much. Or how they view their bodies. In my world, eating disorders are far too common, taken much too lightly. And I realize that athletic girls are at just as big a risk as heavier girls who aren’t as active.

Because healthy eating works both ways. Over-eating or under-eating? Both are equally dangerous. Both have something to do with how a person views his or her body.

And let’s face it, body image is an issue for everyone. (Okay, so maybe one person in a million is healthy in this area, but I’ve never personally met that person.) This is why I so enjoyed reading the book, Love Your Body, A Diet-Free Approach to Balanced Eating by Brooke Parker, R.D..

Before we go on, I want to clarify something. This is NOT a diet book. And actually, the subtitle might be confusing, because the book isn’t as much about eating as it is about learning how to think about eating, exercise, and…well, ourselves in a healthy, balanced manner. I don’t have a weight problem, yet as I read this book, I noticed many, many issues that apply to me, my daily habits, and the way I think. Not only that, it has given me a different view of my daughters and how I teach them to love themselves as they are, not as society might try to mold them to be.

In this short, quick read, I found so many valuable little nuggets of information. For instance, in chapter nine, Brooke talks about the expectations we heap on ourselves. She even gives examples of identifying unhealthy expectations and how to change them into healthy ones. Another good example is in chapter sixteen when she talks about destructive thinking styles and how to overcome them.

One of the most important topics? “I don’t have to be beautiful to be loved or liked.” Now, I’m sorry, but to me, that says it all.

To top it all off, she has included charts and worksheets to help you analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and to remind you to have gratitude for your body. Not to mention the suggestions for pampering yourself. Seriously? Who doesn’t need a little pampering now and then.

As I mentioned before, I’m not often a dieter. My goal in general is not to lose weight, but to stay healthy and take care of myself—an area in which I often fall short. I really enjoyed this book, and the thoughts it brought to mind. This is one of those books that everyone should read. And here’s a secret: according to the author of this book, who is a registered dietitian, it’s actually BETTER to eat the foods we love sometimes than to cut them out completely. Chocolate included. Yahoo! Good news for all.

As mentioned in the title of this post, Walnut Springs Press is hosting a contest in which they're giving away five copies of Love Your Body. That's right, FIVE! As I said above, this is a great book to have on hand for yourself and to give away as a gift to someone you love. Here are the important details:

We will be giving away 5 copies of
Love Your Body: A Diet-Free Approach to Balanced Eating as part of the online book book
tour. The contest starts February 17th and will close on March 5th at midnight, MST.

Entering the contest is easy--all you have to do is blog, tweet, follow, or comment and then fill out this little form here.

So exactly how do you blog, tweet, follow, etc. Here's how.

1. Become a follower of our reviewers' blogs. You can follow one of our reviewers or you can follow all of them. Remember that each blog you follow gives you another chance to win, so why wouldn't you choose to follow them all? But what if we are already following a them ask? Well lucky you because you get an entry for that too.

Walnut Springs Press
Brooke Parker RD
Of Writerly Things
Random-ish by Nichole
Queen of the Clan
Rachelle Writes
The Write Blocks
Tangled Words and Dreams
*Tristi Pinkston, LDS Author
Why Not? Because I Said So!
LDS Women's Book Review

Cami's Book


2. Post a comment on the reviews. .

3. Blog about the contest or one of the reviews. Spread the word. Just remember that the blog post either needs to link to the contest or to one of the reviews.

4. Follow us on twitter. Maybe you use twitter, maybe you don't. But if you do, you should follow us.

http://twitter.com/walnutspringspr
http://twitter.com/brookeparkerrd
http://twitter.com/camichecketts
http://twitter.com/valerieipson
http://twitter.com/Rachellewrites
http://twitter.com/LDSWBR
http://twitter.com/nicholegiles

5. Tweet about the contest or one (or all) of the reviews. Yep, 144 characters or less is all it takes to enter.

6. Become a fan of Love Your Body
on facebook. Brooke is constantly updating her fanpage with articles, recipes, and helpful hints.

7. Post about the contest on Facebook.

8. Anything else you can think of that will spread the word. If you mention it on goodreads, shelfari, google buzz, or any other social media site, or make it your status on gmail chat,
MSN or yahoo messenger let us know. We want to reward your creativity with an entry.

Remember that you MUST fill out the nifty little form HERE to be entered.


To buy your copy of Love Your Body, click here.

To learn more about the author, click here.

**The author of this blog received a free copy of this book in order to read and review it. However, because I found it a beneficial aid for a healthy lifestyle, this particular book will be included in a future giveaway so I can spread the wealth of information.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Lots of Random

What is it about fate that makes certain weeks extra busy, and others extra slow? And why haven't any slow weeks been thrown my way lately? Seriously, sometimes I think it's a miracle that I get any sleep at all. Just saying.

Not that I'm complaining, mind you. I'm actually very excited about everything I have going on right now. But, you know, there aren't enough hours, yadda yadda. The good news is this is a cool, fun, interesting week. Here's the rundown:

1. Today I blogged on Writing Fortress (aka Cedar Fort Authors) about why networking is important. Click here to read more.

2. The winner of the $20 Barnes and Noble gift card has been posted, along with a few random Monday comics on LDS Humor. (Yes, posted by yours truly.) And while I'm talking about winners, the contest winners for all the other contests I posted about last week have also been chosen. I'm not one of them, but scroll down and click on the links to see if you might be one of the lucky ones.

3. Tomorrow, right here on this blog, I'll be reviewing a book called Love Your Body by Brooke Parker R.D.. It's a short read with excellent suggestions on how to rethink your eating and dieting habits. PS This is NOT a diet book! I'm not a big dieter, but I do think eating right is important. Check back on Tuesday to read more about it. Also, as a bonus, enter to win one of five copies of the book, being given away by the publisher. Yahoo! More free stuff.

4. Wednesday I've been asked to present at the League of Utah Writers meeting. This is a great honor. I'll be bringing my coauthor Cindy Beck with me, and we're speaking about our journey From Proposal to Publishing and Promotion. (Aka how Mormon Mishaps and Mischief came to be.) The meeting is being held at the library in Provo, UT, room 201 from 7-9 pm. Oh yes, and it's free to the public. That is, unless you're a heckler. Then you'll be forced to buy my books as payment.

I'll also have a few books handy for purchase, and will sign them for you if you ask nicely. Or if you bribe me with chocolate. Either way.

5. Thursday is my regular posting day at LDS Writer's Blogck. Since I've been busy taking care of Monday-Wednesday's obligations, I have no idea what I'm blogging about there. I'll surprise you. But still come leave comments. They make me so happy.

6. Friday I'm jumping on a plane bound for Phoenix. (Okay, not literally jumping. We all know what happened when Kramer did that.) Yahoo! Off to the ANWA Writer's Conference. I'll be spending the rest of the weekend hanging with my ANWA sisters, learning, relaxing, and writing. Along with some other authors, I'll be signing right after the conference, probably somewhere in the hotel, so if you're in the Mesa area come by and say hi. I'll even sign a book for you. **Crossing my fingers I'll have copies of The Sharp Edge of a Knife before Friday**

7. What else?  Oh yes, March 5th is the day I'll post about my next way cool giveaway. This is in conjunction with a blog tour for my good friend Rachelle Christensen's new release, Wrong Number. You don't want to miss this one, people. So mark your calendars. Also, you MUST read this book. It's a page turner, I tell ya.

8. I'm also still looking for a way awesome, incredible, cool grand prize to give away on my blog tour for The Sharp Edge of a Knife. Speaking of that, I'm also STILL waiting for confirmation on the launch date. I have a tentative schedule, but it all depends on how fast the bookstore can get books. One way or another, I'm launching in mid-March, even if I have to change locations. I'll let y'all know asap.

9. There's still time to register for the LDStorymakers Conference in April. And if you hurry, you'll be able to just squeak by inside the deadline for the first chapter contest. Great prize this year, too. Check it out and register, if you know what's good for you. I'm going, which means all the cool people will be there.

Am I missing anything? Seriously? Because I know I am--not including my kids' indoor soccer games, basketball, music, yadda yadda yadda. What is it? Remind me already!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Ahh! More Giveaways. ARC's!

Okay, seriously people, I'm really, really liking February. Everyone's feeling all loving and kind--and giving away the farm. Including me. I'll be participating in a few giveaways myself--ooh, wait, I am right now.

Check out the LDS Humor Blog to find out how to win a $20 Barnes and Noble gift card. Then, check back here on March 5th and enter to win a really amazing, incredible prize. I've done similar giveaways before, and people, you do NOT want to miss this one. Going to be awesome. Following that, I'm finalizing details on another giveaway that will run concurrent with my upcoming book release. Yeah I'm a giving person. I just can't help it.

But today, I discovered another WAY AWESOME contest. Maggie Stiefvater is giving away ARC's of her upcoming release, Linger, which is the second installment of Shiver. Wait, it gets even better (I know, right? What's better than an advance copy?). She's also giving away advance copies of several other books, including The Dead-Tossed Waves, which is the sequel to The Forrest of Hands and Teeth.

You can scream with excitement now! Now jump up and down. Clap. Scream again. Whoever wins will have a full and complete life. Well, until they finish the books.

Now that you've done all that, here's how you can win:

Linger Cover LargeIn Maggie Stiefvater's Shiver, Grace and Sam found each other.  Now, in Linger, they must fight to be together. For Grace, this means defying her parents and keeping a very dangerous secret about her own well-being. For Sam, this means grappling with his werewolf past . . . and figuring out a way to survive into the future. Add into the mix a new wolf named Cole, whose own past has the potential to destroy the whole pack.  And Isabelle, who already lost her brother to the wolves . . . and is nonetheless drawn to Cole.

At turns harrowing and euphoric, Linger is a spellbinding love story that explores both sides of love -- the light and the dark, the warm and the cold -- in a way you will never forget.


Comes out in stores everywhere July 20th. Pre-order here.

Enter to win an advanced review copies of LINGER, Sisters Red, The Dead-Tossed Waves, and The Replacement on Maggie's blog.

Don't forget to run over to the Humor Blog and enter to win the gift card. The deadline is Feb 19th. Time is running out!

And now, back to work for me!

Monday, February 15, 2010

Win a Query Critique from a Literary Agent!

My good friend, Elana Johnson is hosting an incredible contest on her blog. Not only is Elana one of the contributing authors on the querytracker blog, she's also the author of the e-book From the Query to the Call. That reminds me, she's giving away copies of her book as prizes. This woman has some fab advice for all authors, so this is a contest you don't want to miss. 


But that's not all, oh no. By entering her contest, you'll have a chance to win a query critique by one of these top five literary agents!

1. Kate Testerman-Shafer of KT Literary (critique will be posted on her blog, Ask Daphne)
2. Michelle Andelman of Lynn C. Franklin Associates (my fabulous agent!)
3. Mary Kole of Andrea Brown Literary Agency
4. Michelle Wolfson of Wolfson Literary Agency
5. Joanna Volpe of Nancy Coffey Literary & Media Representation


Seriously. How cool is that? If you ever wondered what you can do to make your query better or strengthen your query writing skills, this is a great opportunity. Check out Elana's blog for information about how you can win. 


Good luck!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Things I Love, End of the Week: I Love My Family

What else did you expect?


There is no better feeling than being a part of a family. Even on days when I'm frustrated or angry, I wouldn't give up my family for anything.I'm not just talking about my husband and kids, although, I love them more than anything and anyone in the world and they are the center of my world. I'm also talking about my whole extended family.


Interesting detail. I'm the oldest of seven biological siblings. I have two sisters and four brothers, and since my parents are divorced and both remarried, I also have four step-siblings. Both sisters and one brother are all married with kids--a total of five. Then my husband is one of the youngest of five. All married, all with three or more kids.

And that's just the beginning. Add in aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents--well, I have one large family. You can imagine how overwhelming family gatherings can be on this level. But it's also wonderful, and fun, and there is so much love there.

Case in point. I had my very first book launch party in December. We held it at a local Barnes and Noble, and spent quite a lot of time spreading the word. (Hm. I think I blogged about this earlier.) Anyway, even though I'd been spreading the word, I really had no idea that everyone--I mean EVERYONE--in my family was coming. We had at least a hundred people that night. Easily. And they were there for me. To support me. To buy my book. To show their love.

I had family there from both Hawaii and France (coincidental timing, I hope) as well as Southern Utah and Northern Utah. People drove for hours to get there. For me.It's not just impressive, it's touching. I love them.

And my girls, the ones I mentioned last week. I love having them in my life. In many ways, they're family too, even though we aren't related by blood.

And then there's my little family. My husband--who bought me sterling silver fairy earrings for Valentine's Day--and my children, who, with their father, are the best part of my life. Every night before he goes to bed, my nine-year-old climbs up on my bed and calls me to come sit with him for a nightly snuggle. He calls me Love. My twelve-year-old daughter will text me at random during the day, just to say hi and tell me she loves me. My fourteen-year-old daughter raids my closet and borrows my makeup and hair supplies--right before she puts on her tie-die shirt and mismatched socks to go play soccer. When I walk in the door from being gone, my sixteen-year-old son puts his arm around me and tells me he loves me. Every day. Just because it's true.

And as I write this blog, I can hear my husband doing the dishes downstairs so I don't have to. And in a little while, he'll bring me a drink so I don't have to go down and get it myself. That's real love.

There's something so special about being part of a family. And I'm sorry if I've gushed a bit, but it's Valentine's Day, so I figure I'm entitled.

Today's the day. Go call the important people in your life, your family--be they blood related or just bonded by love--and tell them how much you love them. Today you have a good excuse. Well, you know, if you think you need one. Which you shouldn't.

Happy Valentines Day, everyone!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Things I Love, Day 6: Romance and Firsts

I'm feeling a bit melancholy right now. My oldest son, now sixteen, went on his first "official" date today. He asked a girl to the Valentine dance, ordered her a corsage, bought flowers and made dinner plans all by himself. Seeing him be giddy with excitement--wait, maybe giddy isn't the right word. Well, anyway, he's been so excited, that I can't help but remember my own first date, and what it felt like to experience those independent, yet romantic stirrings for the first time.

The heady rush of adrenaline, the fluttering of nerves in my stomach, the tongue-tied conversation lulls that create awkward moments--these are the things I remember. There are a lot of things I've long since forgotten about those first experiences--that dating rite of passage--but the incredible feeling of firsts, that is something I don't think we ever forget. Or at least, I don't.

Firsts--be they good or bad experiences--are definitely worth remembering. Your first date, your first kiss, your first love...these are the important moments that make up our lives. The life experiences that have molded us into who we are today.

And right now, my son is one step closer to grown up. **sniff**

But just because first dates are romantic doesn't mean the second, third, fourth and 1553rd time can't be as well. Even for those people who have been married for lots of years--sometimes more so for them. Granted, it does take some effort from both people, but romance is everywhere. There's romance in the small gestures like a husband surprising his wife by doing the dishes before she realizes it. Or a wife making a well-loved dinner for her husband when he's had a particularly bad day.

Or flowers. Sorry, guys, but bringing flowers home out of the blue--I don't care who she is, your significant other will go all soft and mushy inside over that. It doesn't matter if she isn't a big fan of flowers. It's the thought that counts, and the whole idea that your man had the impulse, that he was thinking of you and had the urge to buy you flowers just because. That is just romantic as...heck. (Sorry, this blog is PG.) 

I love romance. Adore it. I think that might be part of the reason why I love things like moonlight, soft music, and waves crashing on the beach. Life can be romantic if we let it.

And since tomorrow is Valentine's day, it's the one day of the year, we should all allow our lives and ourselves to be romantic. Do those small, thoughtful things for each other. Because, hey, everyone needs romance every once in a while.

Okay, time for me to go taxi my son and his date from the dance. Heaven give me the strength to look away while he walks her to the door!

Friday, February 12, 2010

Things I Love, Day 5: Being Social, Service, and Sunshine

Yeah, I know. That's more than one thing. But really, I'm running out of days here. And as you will see if you look at the date on this post, I'm about 15 minutes past the real-life day 5 deadline. Day 5 is actually over.

I haven't been home. At. All. And as I type this, I'm well aware that I need to go to bed so my brain can handle another conference day. Speaking of conferences, that's another thing I love. Love learning and networking and hanging out with people who get me and what I'm all about.Wait, that kind of does fall into the social category, doesn't it? Yeah. It does. So, I love being social. (Especially when there's food involved.)

Another thing I love is service. I have this need to help others. It's always there, hovering right under the surface of my thoughts. It doesn't really matter how I help or serve people, only that I do it without expecting something in return. That's me. Don't misunderstand me though, I always get a return. It always comes back to me one way or another. That's how life should work. And I love it.

As for sunshine--well, that pretty well explains itself. Right? The sun is like, well, sunshine. It's the thing that wakes me up in the morning and keeps me going. Without sun, I'd be a miserable, ornery person. And definitely gloomy.

There's more. I should probably tell you all about the classes at the conference I'm attending this weekend. Maybe the one about movie special effects, or the one taught by Richard Hatch (from the original Battlestar Gallactica). But I won't. At least, not tonight.

Because, of all the things I've just listed, there's one thing I really, really love right now, probably more than all of the above.

Sleep. Goodnight world!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Things I Love, Day 4: Being a Mom

This is how my day went:

Did a stupid thing by staying up reading until after 2:00 am. Woke up at 7:00 to see first child off to school and drive carpool for second child. Ate breakfast with third and fourth, then left to attend a writer's conference (where I also had a book signing). All was well.

Finished my mid-day signing, finally sat down in a class with a row of gorgeous writer friends when...my cell phone starts buzzing. (It was on vibrate, because--well, I'm not THAT rude.) Obviously, school is out. I ignore the first two calls. By number three, I'm worried. Stand up, scoot down the row, out the door, spend the rest of the hour in the hall on the phone.

Go to next class. Get a text. And then a second and third. Sigh. Answer texts, which makes even more flow in. It's now 4:00. I haven't stopped to eat lunch, but my kids want dinner. Time to go home--try again tomorrow.

No homework is done, nor chores, and kids are fighting over the computer.But as soon as I park the car, my nine-year-old comes running into the garage. "Mom! You're home!" Throws his arms around me and squeezes tight. "I missed you, Mom."

My teen girls wave from behind cell phone text-screens, and my sixteen-year-old son drops his arm around my shoulder (yes, he's taller than me) and says, "So how was your day?" And then, "Can I borrow the car?"

I really do love being a mom. Really.

And tonight, I'm going to bed early.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Things I Love, Day 4: Dreams, Goals, and Aspirations

You know that famous speech by Martin Luther King Jr.? I have a dream...(Yeah, okay, I know. Everyone knows about that speech.)

But really, I do have a dream. Lots of them, actually. And goals, and aspirations and plans. Not just for myself, but for my family, my friends, the world. I dream that my children will find and follow their passion, discover their place in life and the universe. Me too, but in a different sense. I've found my passion, my calling. Unlike my teenagers, I'm finally to a place where I know what I want. And I'm learning how to get it.

I create goals, follow through, move forward. And as I find success--whatever the size--my children are watching me, learning. Growing from lessons I'm being taught .They're seeing first hand what happens when you aspire to do something, be something, and allow it to drive you.

My dreams are what drive me. And because those dreams include my family and our future, the fire that burns in me, the passion for my goals is passed on to them. They may not become authors, but it is my hope that my kids will grow up knowing that it is possible to follow a dream. That dreams are worth fighting for, worth sacrificing other wants and desires.

We don't know what will happen tomorrow, or next week, or even next year. But today, we can work diligently, knowing that if we keep at it, eventually, our hard work will pay off.

I love that. I love that by seeking out my personal goals I am setting an example for my children to do the same. But even more than that, I really just love that I'm able to dream. To picture something in my head and wonder what it will be like when that dream becomes a reality. I may be a fiction writer, but when I dream, I dream big. Real. Solid. Goals I intend to reach and surpass. There will always be something for which I am reaching, and my journey is a lifelong, never-ending one.

Yeah. I love that too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwkpihGwSj0
**I was going to post a video here, but it's disabled. You'll have to click the link. But it's worth it. This is a great, great song. 

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Tagged--and Things I Love, Day 3: Music and Words

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I mentioned this last year. I love, love, love music. I'm totally the kind of person who hears music in the background pretty much 24 / 7. Even in my dreams. So it goes without saying that I often write to music. I do almost everything to music. Because music is a part of me.

And here's a funny. I don't usually read to music, but when I've been reading a book, then leave and go somewhere (having music playing in the car) I totally attribute certain songs to whatever scene I've just read, or that is on my mind, and the music sticks for me. Ta da! Instant soundtrack creator.

I admit to sometimes having dorkish tendencies. Whatdayado?

Part of what I love about music is the way the songwriters have of telling a story in just a few lines. They're able to do this through word choice. And I love that! I love that people can create such powerful feelings out of something as simple as a few well chosen words. (I also love harmony, melody, and the power of music itself, but am not going to focus on it just now.) There is something so comforting in knowing that words, when used wisely, can have an impact.

So, today, I love music. And I'm running around my house singing--just like a certain friend of mine tends to do when she's feeling especially happy. (You know who you are!)

On that note, my good friend David West totally tagged me last week, and I've been neglecting the game all this time. Sorry, David! So here it is, everything you ever wanted to know about me:


Rules: Answer the following questions with Single Word answers then pass this along to 5 other bloggers. Make sure you let them know about it though.

Your Cell Phone? Awesome
Your Hair? Red
Your Mother? Mom
Your Father? Dad
Your Favorite Food? (Snow)Crab
Your Dream Last Night? secret
Your Favorite Drink? Dr. Pepper
Your Dream/Goal? Bestseller
What Room Are You In? Bedroom
Your Hobby? Traveling
Your Fear? Snakes
Where Do You See Yourself In Six Years? Tropical
Where Were You Last Night? Home
Something That You Aren't? Mean
Muffins? Raspberry
Wish List Item? Furniture
Where Did You Grow Up? Arizona
Last Thing You Did? Laughed
What Are You Wearing? Jammies
Your TV? On
Your Pets? Dogs
Friends? Incredible
Your Life? #amwriting (I’m stealing David’s answer here!)
Your Mood? Smiling
Missing Someone? Always
Vehicle? Mustang
Something You Aren't Wearing? Jewelry
Your Favorite Store? Mall
Your Favorite Color? Rainbow
When Was The Last Time You Laughed? Now
Last Time You Cried? Days
Your Best Friend? Gary
One Place You Go To Over And Over Again? Hearts
Facebook? Yep!
Favorite Place To Eat? Hawaii

I pass this award to:

C.L. Beck because she’s my coauthor and so great to work with.

Rachelle Christensen because she has a book coming out next month and I’m so excited about it.

Christine Bryant because she always has awesome blogging ideas and is such a great friend.

L.T. Elliot because she is my most faithful blog commenter, ever.

Elana Johnson because she is the rockin-est query queen ever.

And one last note to David, who tagged me. I may be nice, but…please don’t make me feed your cats. I’d probably start sneezing like crazy and break out in hives. Okay, that’s a lie. But my son would!

Monday, February 8, 2010

AuthorPalooza and Things I Love, Day 2: Being an Author

In keeping with my goal for the week, I'm stopping for a minute to reflect on the things I love. I'm thinking about AuthorPalooza on Saturday, and how it feels to sign my name inside a book I created. Well, okay, so I helped create it anyway, since I wasn't alone in the work.

And how it will feel to have my name on the cover of another book I can then sign. It makes me think back to what has happened since I started writing, and the incredible growth I've experienced. All the people I've met who are now my friends. People I might not otherwise have the opportunity to meet.

These people are another group of friends for whom I'm eternally grateful. And whether I'm close to them or just getting to know them, my author friends are special to me. We're there to help each other learn and grow and become successful in the writing and publishing industry. I love them all.

At the signing event on Saturday, there were 40 of us, and I was so proud to have met most of the other authors. The rest...well, I've met them now. I think. Most of them. (It's entirely possible I missed someone, and if you're that someone, I'm so sorry! Track me down next time and we'll meet for real.)

Before everyone left, I took a few minutes and ran around the store snapping pictures. Granted, I was in a hurry (because I left my signing table and we'd had a steady stream of people) so some of these are blurry and bright--but pictures are still pictures and I'm happy to have them.



Today, I love being an author and creating stories from life experience and pure imagination. 

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Sometimes, the Cup is Half Full --Things I love, Day 1

Last year, my friend Christine  hosted a February challenge, which required participants to blog daily about something they love. She didn't do it again this year, but I've decided that since this really is the month of love, I'd like to do something similar. Starting today, and going until Valentines day, I'm going to blog about things I love. Forgive me if I gush a bit.

So, things I love, day one: The Girls

Every once in a while, I get to feeling sorry for myself. I feel stress of one kind or another and let it get under my skin until it burns a hole in me. Sadly, this occasionally happens with small stuff that doesn't really matter. Stuff that takes very little to fix.

That's partly why I have my convertible. Even when it's cold outside, as long as the sun is out, I can put the top down and go for a drive--even if it's just to a convenience store to get a Dr. Pepper--and the small stuff, the stupid stuff, doesn't bother me so much. During the winter, this is harder to do, so the small stuff has more of a chance to build up into medium-sized stuff before I'm able to shuck it off.

This is where my girls come in. And by my girls, I don't mean my daughters (though, they are--technically--my girls, too). I have this incredible, amazing, and fantastic group of friends. Pretty sure I've mentioned them before, actually. We get together once a month--sometimes more. During our time together, we are able to be ourselves. Not the mom, the wife, the taxi driver, the cook, the maid, the sports-coach, the hairdresser, the seamstress, or the all around go-to person--OURSELVES.

I love these women like sisters. They're good for me. When we get together, I'm able to completely forget the things that bother me and smile, say what's on my mind, and roll around on the floor laughing until I've cried all my makeup off and left a puddle on the carpet. And the best part is when this happens, I'm never alone. We're all there, laughing together. (There's a thing about crying and stressing and worrying together too, but I'm not going there today.)

The girls and I spent this weekend away, and I find myself feeling infinitely lucky to have such incredible women in my life. Each of us needed the break for different reasons, but all of the issues are things that can be overcome with love, time, and strength. That's the thing--we help each other be stronger so that over time, love is able to cover-over hurt, help us overcome stress.

One of my friends has a family member who is a breast cancer survivor, so of course, mammograms occasionally come up in our topics of conversation. Long story short--in the world of a breast cancer survivor, having your "cup" be half full--well, it means you've lived through some frightening, life-altering stuff and still come out on top. (BTW, we made that term up--but it does make sense, right?)In this case, having a cup be full would mean certain death.

Today, I've decided this is my new motto. Well, that and something about karma--but that's another topic altogether.

But wait--if you showed up at AuthorPalooza yesterday, you're doubting the truth of my weekend away! Alas, some important things have been known to drag us away from the party--temporarily. Which is what happened to me yesterday. And it was a great event, put on by an incredible store manager, with bunches of super-uber-talented authors, so it was worth the break. But I went back where I needed to be, with women who mean a whole bunch to me.

And today, my half-full cup runneth over.

**More about Author Palooza (inc pictures) later.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Exciting News and A Spotlight: Donna Hatch

I am totally writing right now--had an epiphany and am doing a rewrite on one manuscript so I can then focus on finishing another one--cuz I have great ideas for both. Separate ideas. But I can only work on one at a time. You know, one brain two hands and all that. Oh, the life of a writer.

But I have to take a short break, because this news is too cool not to share.
Look what came in my mail today...


He he! Hooray, cheer, cheer, excitement all around. Okay, so really, I only get to keep one of these. It's a proof copy--the kind where the publisher and author get one or two to look over and approve before the big order is printed. So, my publisher gets the other two. But look! It's here! And guess what? It looks amazing. I LOVE it! Love the cover, love the chapter headings--everything. Yay!

This means my author copies will be here in a few weeks, so it's officially time to plan a party. More news on this soon.

Don't forget, I'll be signing copies of Mormon Mishaps and Mischief at the AuthorPalooza event being held at the Sandy, UT. Barnes and Noble (this is right by Southtowne Mall) from 1-4pm. I'm there with about 30 other authors, so this is going to be a totally fun event. But if you can't make it, don't stress. Cindy and I will also be at the BYU bookstore in Provo on Thursday, Feb 11th from 11:45-1:30. Come say hi if you can.

Oh, I almost forgot to do my author spotlight this week. Today, I'd like to introduce you to Donna Hatch. This interview was conducted by someone who is not me, so you won't recognize any of my usual questions. However, I like her answers and have been given permission to post the interview here. Thanks Donna!


Hi Donna. Tell us about your release, The Stranger She Married.

Okay, here's my elevator pitch:

The Stranger She Married is book one of the Rogue Hearts Series. Torn between a disfigured war hero with the heart of a poet, and a handsome libertine who may not be all he seems, impoverished Alicia must marry by the end of the month. Despite a murder threat looming over her, learning to love the stranger she married may pose the greatest danger of all … to her heart.

The cover is gorgeous! Can you tell us a little about how covers come into being? Do you have input into the process?

Most publishers don't let the authors have any input, but I was lucky -- mine does. I filled out a questionnaire with character descriptions and a concept of what I'd pictured. The finished result was nothing like I'd imagined, and the hero looks nothing like the cover, but they got the heroine spot-on right down to the eye color.

What are you working on now?

I'm finalizing the edits on book 3 of the Rogue Heart's Series which isn't titled yet. (Gulp.) Book 2, The Guise of a Gentleman will be out in April. Each book is a stand-alone book, about a different brother of the Amesbury family, and the family members wander in and out of each other's books.

You have a posse of kiddos, how do you find time to write? How do you balance family with writing?

Yes, with 6 children, making time to write is very challenging. I do much of my writing at night after they are in bed, or during nap time, but when I'm on a roll, I write instead of unimportant things like fixing dinner. I haven't dusted since last Christmas and I gave up scrapbooking. This year, my youngest child started kindergarten, so now I can write after they all leave for school. I also work in an office part time every afternoon, so that really cuts into my writing but I'm very focused, (or obsessed) so I keep at it at odd times of the day. And night.

What is the coolest thing about being an author?

A huge rush came when I got my contract and I was giddy about it for months. But I have to say that was nothing compared to the day my book came out and I saw it on the home page of my publisher. The euphoria was almost a surreal experience. The giddiness is still with me and I've noticed people inching away from me when my grin gets a bit too happy. I guess I scare people. And now I do it without even opening my mouth.

What has surprised you about being a published author?

How excited my friends and family were for me. I knew they'd be supportive, but I had no idea how they'd rally around me and help me promote it like they have. My niece even set up a fan page for The Stranger She Married!

What do you like to do when you aren't writing?

I love to read more than almost anything else. And I love music; I sing, play the harp, and am the choir director for my church. I also like to swim, water ski, snow ski, and dance. I’m totally uncoordinated, so I don’t play any team sports and sports worldwide thank me for it. And, sappy as it sounds, I love to spend time with my husband, talking, walking, playing racquetball, or just cuddling.

Thanks again, Donna, for letting me spotlight you here. For those interested in purchasing a copy of The Stranger She Married, click here.

And now back to editing, writing, and planning a launch party.  (Tick, tick, tick--yeah, I actually have a plan.) Write on!


**The author of this blog did NOT get a free copy of this book, and will not receive compensation of any kind for this spotlight, except maybe the gratitude of the book's author. But I do plan on reading this book because I'm interested. Does that count?