Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Own It

There was a time, back when I was not as wise as I am now, when I actually worried about stupid things like appearances. What other people thought of me, why they thought such things, and how those thoughts might come to be.

And it was a crazy, stupid way for me to think because, as we all know, the thought processes of others are completely out of our control. Also, worrying about that was unhealthy and cumbersome to my self confidence and well being.

Since then, I have learned a better way.

Own it.

When you end up taking your kid lunch money still wearing your sweaty gym clothes and no makeup, own it.

When the neighbor comes to your door at 2:00 in the afternoon and you’re still in your pajamas with a fist full of tissues and bed-head—own it.

When you’re on your way to a formal benefit and need to stop by a book launch to support a friend (even though you’re vastly overdressed in a gown) own it.

You are who you are, even when the public perception might be somewhat…less flattering than you’d prefer. I’m not saying you should let yourself go and never try to look and be your best. On the contrary. Looking our best for certain occasions is very important (hence the formal dress in a casual setting).What I’m saying is we’re all human, and occasionally all humans are seen in a light different from what they would normally prefer to be seen. If, by some odd chance, that different light makes people stare a little bit, just smile and wave. It’s all good.

Be glad they didn’t walk in on you naked. Or did they?

Smile and wave, peeps. Just smile and wave.

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Stephanie Black said...

This is awesome! Thanks, Nichole!

Michelle Davidson Argyle said...

You looked SO good at my launch! You are awesome, Nichole, and I love you for it. Owning it is a huge part of maturity levels, I think. I'm still trying to get to the point where I own my yoga pants and ratty T-shirt. :)