Wednesday, January 19, 2011

What Becomes of the Broken Hearted?

On Monday, I promised to tell you what kids need to know after a trusted adult breaks their heart and/or spirit.So here it is, the raw truth (for all kids and adults alike):

It does not matter what church you attend, or how often you go. It does not matter what sport you play, your position, your skill level, your choice of uniform colors. It doesn’t even matter if you play a sport at all. Or if you do art, or dance, or music, or writing. It doesn’t matter if your hair is blonde or brown or black or purple or RAINBOW striped, any more than the color of your skin matters. It doesn’t matter where you live, how large your house, the kind of car your parents drive or if you walk everywhere.  

None of these things have anything to do with your value as a very important human being.

You have a purpose, and it is not to be what everyone else in the world thinks you should be, but rather to be YOU. The best you possible. There is always room for improvement. Because no one is, or will ever be perfect. But YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH.

That person who let you down? Obviously, they’re not perfect either. And it’s not up to you to make them see the error of their ways (though, your parents might if ever given the chance). No. Your job is to NEVER listen to the voice they’ve installed in your head that makes you look at the ground instead of straight ahead, that makes you back away from a challenge instead of meeting it head on, that makes you feel the need to apologize for NOTHING.

You are good enough. You have the potential to climb mountains, swim oceans, jump chasms, and visit outer space if that’s what you want to do. What you do with your life is not up to them. It’s up to you. And you have the ability to do it, if only you will conquer your fears and try.

And you know what? You may not be perfect, but your hopes, your dreams? They are. And you have every right, every ability, to reach for them.

Never, ever let anyone—no matter who they are—tell you, or make you feel otherwise.

Okay kids, thanks for listening. I’ll jump off my soap box now. Good afternoon, good evening, and goodnight.

*Yep, still working toward what all this has to do with writing. Friday, peeps. Friday. 


Angela Felsted said...

What about acceptance? Even if the impossible dream ultimately ends up being just that?

C. K. Bryant said...

I needed this today. I really, really needed to hear this. Thanks Nichole.

LeishaMaw said...

"Dreams and visions stimulate the brain and mobilize the action centers. Whatever it is that you dream about with regularity, you will begin to hope for. Hope stimulates planning. Planning produces behavior designed to move you forward. This brings progress. It all begins with a dream!” Neil Clark Warren.

Loved the post. Thanks. I'm off to believe in myself and dream. Oh, and work a lot, too.

Carolyn V. said...

So well said Nicole. I couldn't agree more. <3

Angie said...

Hear, hear!